Feelings
somethings are the way they are and words just can't explain
A lesson well learnt
Saturday, February 05, 2005
wow...I have not been blogging even though I have been free lately. Well, I firgured out that, people either blog when they are too free, or when they are trying to procastinate, and I think I am the later! Hahaha..so sorry guys, the blogger and procastinater is back!

Well, anyway, was talking to my dad's friends after dinner, and I have to admit, it was a wonderful night, a night well spent and lessons well learnt. We were talking about views in life, and seriously, I have to admit what Uncle Marvin and Uncle Boon said..respect! Respect your friends and the people around you, no matter who they are, respect them for what they are. Even if they are doing something that you don't agree, RESPECT. RESPECT and RESPECT. You cannot force them do what you think is right, you can only give advice, which is quite true, because they are who they are!

YES, it is soo true..many times, I realised when I start giving advice, I tend to have expectations on the person and I get upset if the person didn't listen. I never ever did stand on other people's feet and think of them. My advice and judgement might be from my perspective, but they are the people who are experiencing it. I have to respect their decision and judgement. Respect them! and the friendship will last!